My practice has opened me up to reading quite a few men in the past years. Ordinarily, women have been most receptive to psychic readings and quite open. In fact, years ago many of my clients told no one that they come for a clairvoyant session fearful of people laughing at them. However, that did not last too long and I can pride myself that my work has always been by referrals.
Most men that have seen me due to work related readings and corporate work and have come to see me over the past few years have trickled in s-l-o-w-l-y... they are asking for readings on their emotional state dealing with women. Boy, is their perception of what women want pretty tainted. Without being a feminist, I am seeing that the male and female species aren't connecting too well and I feel I must "DISH" about it!
What happened? Did I fall asleep and wake up to another reality in the world of men?
It's like the Dorothy in the WiZard of Oz waking up in Kansas. She woke up after the tornado hit to find her world the same, only the people in her life looked different to her. "Toto", we are not in Kansas anymore. So, have men changed that much from the days of wine and roses when it was not such a struggle to get them to commit?
Nowadays, the complexities of men are harder to figure out and understand their intentions. Something has warped their minds in regards to having relationships. Intimacy seems a dirty word (and I am not talking about sex) with the breakdown of communication. Couples seem to speak, think and talk a different language of understanding.
Fear of commitment and the new 2009 word "Commitment phobic" is the new disease of the century. At least with the flu you take aspirin and bed rest and it leaves the system. The fear of men offering themselves to a women to work out differences in a relationship is the taming the wild beast who is reluctant to change...
What's happening here? Since I am man bashing, why are men reluctant to change?
One word is fear, fear, fear..
1. Fear of change, of control, of commitment where they feel they are drowning without the raft and see no island in sight.
2. Feeling of powerlessness..turning over the power to the new and improved "enlightened" women. (eg. an Oprah, Michelle Obama, Hilary Clinton)to name a few.
3. Women have become educated as they have opened their universe to a reservoir of information and with the knowing they can posess their own power. Men become intimidated by their lack of controlling their own energies and fully without knowing what they want and, therefore, don't know how to react so they back-off as it is easier.
Since they can be timid in not being able to move forward, as they are engulfed with the fear of capture, they walk away leaving the women wondering what happened to the guy who hasn't called back.
4. Relationships are no longer on the same playing field as women gave away their bodies too freely because the masses said it it alright!
5. Books like "Men from Mars" and "Women from Venus", "Men who love Bitches" and "He's not that into you", have spurred a new generation of angry women who have found that they have to play a role. Women are now getting tough and fed up with the ying and yang, back and forth push and we have become addicts and that puts us in the best pill poppin' generation.
6. Women who are not educated with their own independence, become needy of the lack of love and affection that a man can hold back..WHY SHOULD MEN OFFER COMMITMENT WHEN THEIR OPTIONS ARE TO STAY SINGLE AND RECEIVE FREELY............
Many may disagree with me but my message is: To go within, feel love and open to it's specialness in coming together with a purpose in mind!
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