WHY IS LOVE SO COMPLICATED?

This past month has had me reeling with love issues coming to me. I think it is time people are finally commiting to their feelings and going for it. Besides decisions about divorces, relationships they can't commit to , or partnerships that no longer work. Better said, VENTING, seems to be the word. I think venting is really throwing up on people! Enough already the repetition has made me want to barf.

Love should be the motivating force that propels the act of faith and is nourished in a climate of hope. Love is magical in that it just is. When it's there, you know it! If we do not love, we cannot survive. It makes us feel that all things are possible. Besides, Love is without words, thought or action. It lights the eyes into seeing and in the feeling, the luster of sparkle.

I believe, if you are lucky enough to have found love and really feel it, it radiates from your center generating and attracting to you all that you desire. OMG, I am really feeling this energy now as I write this having my friendships, family and clients that I truly love that are getting
this concept in this crazed and wacky world we now occupy. We need to release ourselves out of this dog eat dog world. We need to be real and then we can separate ourselves from those energies we cannot stand being with and be we others we do.

Listen guys and girls..lust or erotic love is deceptive. It is experienced when two individuals come together and a spark is ignited. This so called spark is generated when opposites attract. It is completely sexual. It is not lasting as the spark of passion lasts only as long as intimacy survives. Once intimacy fades, that flame of emotion and attachment dies, irritation grows, and the source of wonder deteriorates and leaves. Poof..it's over!

Soooo, as you wait for the "eureka" experience, bells ringing, lights flashing, make sure you go through a period where you see into all illusions and perceptions and if it doesn't fit...toss it off.

Wasting your energy trying to alter others who cannot be altered needs to be disgarded.

Walt Whitman wrote: "No one can acquire for another-not one: No one can grow for another-not one".

So when you think of love it can be a resting place where all things grow, flow and flourish. When the longing for possessing falls away, we can live in life's magical glow of light. Bathing in peace and contentment aint too bad. LOVE IS the life force, for without it, and put into practice, we die.......................